Talking About Love


Hello, people. 

It's good to be back! Sorry for the absence of posts for the last couple of weeks. I thought I can spend some time to write a post between hectic wedding days, but turns out it was the busiest week of my life. And we directly left Jakarta in the next 2 days after our wedding for a honeymoon. So yes, apologize for keeping you guys out-dated, we were too busy being in love. 

But yes, I'm back now to my normal days. So I think let's start softly in talking about how it feels like after a long journey of relationship - to the wedding day - and, now.

Some of you might already knew, I met my husband (was my boyfriend) back in college. He was my senior classmate and we met at a music student club. It was very nice talking to him and we kinda got the chemistry right away. We started dating in 2012 and it keeps getting stronger until now. (More than 6 years, wow.)

Of course, there are ups and downs in our relationship. We've been through everything, and we also did long-distance relationship for a year when I was still finishing my study in Yogyakarta & he was already working in Jakarta. Every time we face a problem, he always says we should not blame each other, but we should focus on how to avoid the problem in the future. He is a very mature & wise person, I might say. We always communicate every single thing, that's why there's no problem seems so big that we can not handle.

On 2017, he proposed to me during our holiday in our favorite town, the town where we fell in love, Yogyakarta. I said I do, definitely, absolutely, completely. By the end of the year, the two families met and we started preparing our wedding. It was a fun & busy 8 months until the wedding day, but by that time, I fell nothing but love. Big love. It's an amazing feeling to "build" something with your beloved one, all the hard times don't seem like big deal to us.

Finally, we got married on 18.8.18, just two weeks ago. It was a very, very beautiful night, just like what we imagined. I feel nothing but happiness & love. I feel loved. I was smiling all night long because I can not contain the happiness. I'm marrying my best friend, my other half, my everything.

Life seems to be better now. Like I'm in the right place, like I'm complete. I can't believe that it was 7 years ago that I met this man, who's a weird, a funny, and a very loving man. I still can't believe that I'm the luckiest woman to feel this much love from this man. And now - nothing in this world seems impossible & hard. When I'm with him, I know I'll be alright.

♥ K

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